If your spouse was on Facebook flirting with an old fling, would you consider that to be cheating?
Why or why not?
Why or why not?
Do you consider online flirting to be cheating?
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I'm just hoping that DFS is flirting with banning you for starting so many damn inane threads.
To play devils advocate, isn’t that what a message board is for?
Yes - and your point’s fair.
I guess my only response is, give Lurker more time and you’ll eventually feel the same way.
Why don't you just use your "ignore" button?
You'll never have to read my posts again...
I think the key word here is inane.
Back to the OP questions:
If you have to hide if from significant other because they would not approve, then you have your answer.
If they know about it a don't see an issue and you're upfront and not hiding anything, then you have your answer.
If you have to hide if from significant other because they would not approve, then you have your answer.
If they know about it a don't see an issue and you're upfront and not hiding anything, then you have your answer.
I think that's between you and your significant other. Anything you do in secret and cover in lies is cheating. However my spouse and I trust each other, we don't hide anything from each other, and we're not bothered by it in the least. We've found it's healthier to let each other be free in those areas as long as we're open about it than to put up restrictions and rules and make it all so enticing.
So yeah, sometimes she flirts with people. It's good for her confidence. Sometimes I have. We both know about it when it happens and we're ok with it.
So yeah, sometimes she flirts with people. It's good for her confidence. Sometimes I have. We both know about it when it happens and we're ok with it.
I'm not certain how to define flirting. The point is generally that I'm not going to get upset if she talks to an old boyfriend, reminisces about old times, even has some flirtatious commentary that makes her feel good. I know she's not going to leave me, and if she does then we had bigger issues than the fact that she talked with someone. We've found that not setting those kinds of boundaries makes us be more honest about what we are having issues with and more likely to address them and find less of a need for someone outside to fulfill those holes.
No - flirting is healthy. Jump start the engines and bring that energy to the one you love.
several ways, but it mostly takes the form of, "We lost touch long ago
You lost weight I did not know
You could ever look so nice after
So much time"
True story - I have a friend whose wife sent $100,000 to an on-line romantic interest. Still married.
He must’ve been cheating too. No other reasonable explanation for that.
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He was a top attorney in a locale I will not mention now living small in Indianhead Acres.
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Saying, "but hun, my friends on an internet message board said it's fine," doesn't absolve you of cyberwandering?
So he knows how divorce works. She gets 1/2, and then 1/2 of his remaining 1/2 for life. It just the math of it.
Guys aren't quitters, statistically speaking. Girls tend to be the emotional basket cases and financially rewarded quitters.
There are also degrees of this sort of behavior - polite compliments designed to spread joy may be flirting, but are mostly harmless.
No, but that sure as heck leads to it. It also is dependent on your definition of flirting.
"Wow, you look handsome after all these years."
is much different than sexting and other things I won't type here.
