I coached football with a guy last season that seemed to have his crap together. Drove a pretty new Tahoe, had a job and his wife had a job. Their house was a dumpster fire. No AC (this was August in Tallahassee), trash everywhere, cabinets falling off the walls. trashed vehicles in the yard. Garage doors missing with garbage piled in the garage to the ceiling.
Priorities of some people are strange. There is no way I'd be volunteering my time to coach football if my house needed that much attention.