I have a good friend that lives in San Diego. Went to visit him last year. San Diego is a great place to visit. There were no marauding groups of homeless people nor immigrants. Went to the beach, museums, various beach bars, rode an electric bike up into the hills, etc. Just a great place. However, my friend and his wife are leaving SD to go back to Eugene. Why? Because of the cost of housing. Been there for 8 years and had to rent for those years. Kept getting kicked out as the owners lied to them and made decisions to either sell their houses (in the middle of a lease) or wanted to dramatically increase the rent and kicked them out. It took its toll. The last one, my friend negotiated hard and is living in San Diego rent free until they leave at the end of the summer. FYI they are not poor and make a large household income for any other place in the country, but they couldn't afford or want to buy a house for well over $1.5M in the areas they wanted to live. This demonstrates the overall problem with California. The places that are really nice are priced out of the range for the vast majority of people and for the rest, your mortgage/taxes/insurance or rent is tough to carry. You have to be really wedded to living there and sacrificing to afford it.