1. This is a good discussion, but it should have stayed on the board where I posted it. DJ was suspended indefinitely for "hitting a girl," not for hitting someone. The university decided, and most posters agreed, that "hitting a girl" was grounds for immediate suspension, and removal from the football team unless extenuating or mitigating circumstances became known. So the question about "hitting a girl" was germane and timely to a breaking news story.
2. Despite the good discussion, few posters have actually answered the question I posed. If we agree that "hitting a girl" is wrong, or almost always wrong, because she is a girl, is it wrong, or almost always wrong, for us to approve of putting a woman in a combat role, where she is likely be much more significantly harmed, or even killed? So how many of you support both men hitting women, and women in combat and special forces units? How many of you are against men hitting women, but support women in combat and special forces units? If you support women in combat, but not hitting women, why is that not a direct contradiction?