My cousins husband is a mess and a lout. He feels awkward at family events so he gets drunk and loud. Towards the end of the night, he was dropping f bombs around 10 year old kids. This is the 3rd year in a row he's been hammered at thanksgiving. It is ridiculous and if I knew him better I'd tell him he has a problem. It's not like he's a frat guy...he's 38 years old.