Words cannot express how sorry I am. My thoughts and prayers are sent to you and your family.I have been posting here on Warchant since the beginning, and some of you know that family is my number 1 concern.
Last Sunday, we lost my father-in-law (who lived with us following the death of my MIL back in March and my FIL also had cancer), and last Monday, my 16 year old son passed away unexpectedly here at home. We are awaiting the toxicology results, but he did not have any history of drug abuse, but there were some drugs found in his system, giving us the belief that he was in too much pain from the loss of my FIL to carry on. We did not see this coming, at all.
I am in shambles, but my wife is in a different world right now. Please say a prayer for us, and for my Matthew, who was my best friend in the whole world and I am lost without him!
I teared up reading this as I could not imagine the loss of my own son..Manch, may you find peace but I cannot even begin to imagine the sadness you are dealing with.Words cannot express how sorry I am. My thoughts and prayers are sent to you and your family.
Oh, Manch my man. I am so sorry to hear..hang in there brother. I can not even begin to know the pain and loss y'all are going through. Prayers for your family tonight....I have been posting here on Warchant since the beginning, and some of you know that family is my number 1 concern.
Last Sunday, we lost my father-in-law (who lived with us following the death of my MIL back in March and my FIL also had cancer), and last Monday, my 16 year old son passed away unexpectedly here at home. We are awaiting the toxicology results, but he did not have any history of drug abuse, but there were some drugs found in his system, giving us the belief that he was in too much pain from the loss of my FIL to carry on. We did not see this coming, at all.
I am in shambles, but my wife is in a different world right now. Please say a prayer for us, and for my Matthew, who was my best friend in the whole world and I am lost without him!
This must be among the most horrible losses one can experience. I'd be a mess. I hope that you can find strength to honor your son by living as well as possible. Thoughts and prayers for you old LR mate.I teared up reading this as I could not imagine the loss of my own son..Manch, may you find peace but I cannot even begin to imagine the sadness you are dealing with.
Just donated. $7820 has been raised in 2 days so far, that is pretty amazing. Even though many of us in here are total strangers, just want you to know that we got your back Manch.
The account was set up on the 14th, so it's been going on for about 10 days, but with that said, I am in tears this morning at the generosity of the folks here at Warchant. We are very close to having what we need to pay for his expenses, and thank you to les for posting the account info, it was not my intention to do that. Someone who knows my situation said that I should post something, because somewhere, someone might have gone through the same situation and they might be able to say something that will help me out, and you all have said enough to carry me through another day. My wife is beside herself that a group of people that we have never met can be so kind!
In tears, I thank everyone again! Hugs, thoughts and prayers have carried us and the folks here are about the classiest group of people that I know of.
Thanks again and we send all of our love right back at you guys!
Scott and Simonne Perry on behalf of Matthew Perry!
Man, I can't imagine what you must be going through right now. I'm so sorry. Don't you have a daughter, too? How is she doing?
I donated, but if there's anything else I can do, please let me know.
Again, I can't thank you guys enough!
I have a 13 year old daughter (Marissa) who has built a wall of denial. She hurts like the rest of us do! We are watching over her every second of the day, because that wall will crash and we will be there for her. She wrote a letter to Matthew and left it in his casket, it's none of my business as to what see wrote. We are trying our best to not leave her in the shadow, but like any 13 year old girl, I think she is trying to take advantage of the situation, just a little bit.
A few years ago, for Father's Day, Matt and Marissa bought me a really nice and expensive Manchester United kit, that I hardly wore because I didn't want it to get ruined, but Matthew wore it all the time, including his school pictures this year. On his last journey, he wore that shirt. We would watch MUFC games together, or if he was upstairs doing something, we would meet halfway on the stairs to throw high fives and the tough part is watching a game now and I start to head for the stairs when United scores or De Gea makes one of his out of the world saves. My love of watching a United game has almost come to a halt, but as time goes on, I am sure that I will be able to watch a game in peace. It's just not the same and never will be.
Here is his obituary.
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/unionleader/obituary.aspx?n=matthew-r-perry&pid=175855784&fhid=4831
We do. Amazing really when most of us have never met in person. I know I have taken comfort from posters here during down times.We do have a tendency to look after our own... up over $8k now.
If there is anything else I can help with please don't hesitate...