It’s physical certainly, but the mental aspect is key too.
We’ve been at a few meets that have 1,000+ fans in the stands. Think about the courage that it takes for an 8-year old kid to walk out onto a mat by himself/herself, knowing that they’re about to “fight” another kid.
Formally it’s a team sport, but it’s really you and only you, you can only rely on yourself.
Turnaround times between matches can be quick (Jake wrestles in both open meets and team duals), so if you lose, you may have to gather yourself very quickly to go back out there again.
Jake took a cheap shot from a kid at a team dual, the kid punched him in the nose and he was literally spurting blood on the mat. Lots of people completely fold at the site of blood, more so if it’s their own, but after the paramedic got the bleeding stopped and we got him cleaned up, I told him he needed to go back out and finish the match, which he did (and brutalized the other kid).
I don’t brag much about anything, but about this, I certainly do. He’s such a sweet, mild mannered kid, until he gets on the mat. Doesn’t hurt that he’s freakishly strong for his size and weight (and can do the splits, which is quite useful for a wrestler...and a hockey goalie).
One thing I do not like about youth wrestling is parents of wrestlers. Lots of a’holes in the stands every weekend. I’ve told Jake that any time a parent yells at him while he’s smashing their kid, he’s to blow them a kiss, turn the kid onto his back, and lock on a nasty, tight cross face.
(I’m a jerk, I’m not disputing that).