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I didn't call someone a dipshit; more than welcome to have a discussion. Just don't think that you can pull the education card without some level of push back. While a higher education is certainly a quality and level of better understanding for some things; it doesn't allow you to have a monopoly on what goes on in the real world. Please apology for being aggressive towards me so we can continue a professional discussion. I feel like you are trying to bully me with your Ph'd; please don't be a bully.
This is the world we live in though. Very tough to have civil, intelligent discussions in today’s environment. Sad, really.
 
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The only fuel that was added here was by the victim. He chose to escalate the situation. He paid the price.
So, this thought came to mind. Since the shooter is possibly gonna walk since he felt imminent danger for some non provable reason, would the lady he verbally assaulted also walk if she pulled out a piece and shot him as well?
Remember, he had been scaring her and her kids (likely, right?) and is now shooting a weapon in her general direction. Why not take the initiative to end the threat to her kids mother?
 
The shooter started it. The victim escalated it to physical, but if the shooter had simply minded his own business they never would have met, much less fought, or got shot.
Agreed.

Learned the lesson really early in life: don’t start no shit, won’t be no shit.
 
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The shooter started it. The victim escalated it to physical, but if the shooter had simply minded his own business they never would have met, much less fought, or got shot.
There is no audio, so there is no way to know what was discussed with the victim’s girlfriend in the car. Regardless, the shooter did not physically threaten or assault anyone. If the victim gets in his car, he is alive. Period.
 
There is no audio, so there is no way to know what was discussed with the victim’s girlfriend in the car. Regardless, the shooter did not physically threaten or assault anyone. If the victim gets in his car, he is alive. Period.
Well, the girlfriend is still alive, so she can give an account.

Regardless, you don't honestly think the victim just came out and randomly shoved a guy, that happens to have a history or harassing people at that location, for no reason at all do you?
 
So, this thought came to mind. Since the shooter is possibly gonna walk since he felt imminent danger for some non provable reason, would the lady he verbally assaulted also walk if she pulled out a piece and shot him as well?
Remember, he had been scaring her and her kids (likely, right?) and is now shooting a weapon in her general direction. Why not take the initiative to end the threat to her kids mother?
There is no audio.
 
There is no audio, so there is no way to know what was discussed with the victim’s girlfriend in the car. Regardless, the shooter did not physically threaten or assault anyone. If the victim gets in his car, he is alive. Period.
Without audio, you can’t conclude what threats the shooter made.
 
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The victim started the confrontation.

Confrontation definition: “a hostile or argumentative meeting or situation between opposing parties.”

You don’t think walking up and confronting someone is confrontational?

I don’t need to hear audio to know he came over and told the woman she was wrong. He didn’t leave after telling her, either. He started the confrontation. The victim escalated it, but none of it would’ve happened had the murderer come over, said his peace, and left.

It doesn’t change the fact that a little weak punk with a gun can start a fight, get shoved, and kill someone, legally.
 
If this shooter ever brandished his gun, he should have been charged. Then, he would have lost his right to carry a firearm. Is it confirmed this happened?

It happened, but the victim he branded it too choose not to press charges.
 
Let this be a lessen to us all— guns are so prevalent in our country that you tick one guy off on the road , for example, you could find yourself being shot at. People are crazy, you give them easy access to a gun, a very prevalent gun culture in our country and you could find yourself littered with bullets...
 
It can be a factor as well. Is there evidence or witnesses that can prove that this happened?
There’s a guy who was quoted at the exact same gas station saying this guy threatened him. There was also a road rage complaint from a few years ago in which the other person said this guy pulled his gun. So yes.
 
There is no audio.

You can’t be serious on this. The guy wasn’t giving her directions or complimenting her hair. She stated and witnesses stated he was berating her, and the clerk stated he has berated others in the past.

You lose all credibility in your arguments when you act as if he could have been acting like a gentleman and exchanges pleasantries just because you don’t have the actual audio.
 
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You can’t be serious on this. The guy wasn’t giving her directions or complimenting her hair. She stated and witnesses stated he was berating her, and the clerk stated he has berated others in the past.

You lose all credibility when you act as if he was over there being a gentleman just because you don’t have the actual audio.
Agree. I understand what Bud is saying and it may not lead to a conviction but from what I saw, I disagree with his assessment that it is reasonable to be in fear from serious bodily harm or death. Regardless of size difference. Now if there is audio or witness that says the guy that shoved him very hard (And that is what it is, It isn't a slam or gentle nudge or push but a very hard physical shove). and then was saying he was going to finish beating him up or kill him, then perhaps there might be reason to believe that. But just the shove with no follow up or continued aggression, that is just not enough in my opinion to shoot someone. I have my concealed carry and would not do that in that situation. Even if the guy was twice my size and physical stature and imposing.

With just that video showing and no additional evidence to show some additional threat to the guy verbal or otherwise, I think a jury would convict him. But I do have a question, couldn't the DA go ahead and present it to a grand jury and see what if they say charges should be brought?

This is nothing like the Zimmerman case in what was presented as evidence, so comparing to Zimmerman is not a valid comparison in my opinion.
 
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I am a strong believer in the 2A, and I carry everywhere including church when not partying.

If I am going to drink, I leave my gun at home.


There's a whole lot of fail in that video.

1. Don't police. There's too many "real police" as is.

2. Don't intervene in arguments because some idiot might have a gun or knife. Especially don't touch someone.

3. The guy was backing away when shot. He was clearly withdrawing.
 
So if some jagoff is yelling at your wife when you come outside, you'd just let that be?
Get out of here w/that nonsense.

If I came out and they're verbal I'm going not going to introduce violence. If I came out and they're physically attacking my wife then a line has been crossed, and we'll have to settle this on the terms they've chosen.

Agreed.

Learned the lesson really early in life: don’t start no shit, won’t be no shit.

Then why don't we start with parking in the handicap spot?
Would we feel differently about the confrontation if the shooter was crippled? Would he then have a 'right' to complain verbally without expectation of physical assault? Or do we need to be in a special class before verbally confronting someone breaking the law?
 
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If I came out and they're verbal I'm going not going to introduce violence. If I came out and they're physically attacking my wife then a line has been crossed, and we'll have to settle this on the terms they've chosen.



Then why don't we start with parking in the handicap spot?
Would we feel differently about the confrontation if the shooter was crippled? Would he then have a 'right' to complain verbally without expectation of physical assault? Or do we need to be in a special class before verbally confronting someone breaking the law?
There were plenty of spaces. The guy was just playing Barney Fife. He should’ve done what most of us do - shake your head at the inconsiderate people in the world and get on with life. Or at most say something to make you feel better but then get on with life. No need for an extended argument.
 
Nobody would argue that shoving him down was the best option. The thing is...he shoved him. Nobody dies from a scraped elbow and bruised ego. One of the two people’s first move was to use fists and one was to squeeze the trigger.

I’d also argue the civil thing to do would have been to ignore the parking job and shop for whatever it was he went there for. 3 kids have no dad today because that guy thought he was Walker, Texas ranger.
No. The 3 kids have no dad because their father thought he was Billy Bad Ass!
 
Yes the video does, and you say as much in your post. The shooter verbally confronted a woman, without that confrontation he doesn't get pushed to the ground and the opportunity to cowardly murder someone.
How do you? Or anyone else know what what said? Everyone is assuming that the shooter was screaming or yelling at the girlfriend. No one knows but the two of them and I bet we hear two different stories. Don't assume anything.
 
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So if some jagoff is yelling at your wife when you come outside, you'd just let that be?

Get out of here w/that nonsense.

100% of us, unless you're just an ultra-wussified coward, would NEVER let another man berate our wives or significant others like that.

It's already been pointed out, but the only reason that loser who pulled the trigger felt so confident was b/c he was carrying. He was an irresponsible gun owner, who is wholly to blame. He inflamed the other guy by berating his wife. I don't see how anyone can see it any other way. The handicapped spot is irrelevant to this discussion too, IMO. It's a cop and/or a meter maid's job to do parking enforcement...not Joe Schmoe's.
And just let me know, how you know the shooter was berating the mans girlfriend? Just curious
 
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How do you? Or anyone else know what what said? Everyone is assuming that the shooter was screaming or yelling at the girlfriend. No one knows but the two of them and I bet we hear two different stories. Don't assume anything.

I didnt say I knew what was said, just that the shooter verbally confronted the woman and that is in the video, the content of the conversation is immaterial.
 
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i wish the woman he was berating had a gun and shot him...and we were instead arguing was her shooting justified?

The idiot w/the gun incited the violence that was perpetrated against him by harassing a woman. It was his own fault that he was pushed to the ground.
Thats a real intelligent post
 
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No. The 3 kids have no dad because their father thought he was Billy Bad Ass!
What kind of sad world do you live in where kids losing their dad is something to joke about? Your posts come off as though you are pleased with the turnout of that confrontation. No matter how you feel about guns your outlook should value human life. If you don’t go to church....I’d recommend starting. If you do go....maybe start listening.
 
Well, the girlfriend is still alive, so she can give an account.

Regardless, you don't honestly think the victim just came out and randomly shoved a guy, that happens to have a history or harassing people at that location, for no reason at all do you?
Yea, I would really like to hear her account. I'm sure it would be nothing but the truth. Just like she said the parking lot was full. Oh wait, there were 3 open spaces right in front of the store.
 
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What kind of sad world do you live in where kids losing their dad is something to joke about? Your posts come off as though you are pleased with the turnout of that confrontation. No matter how you feel about guns your outlook should value human life. If you don’t go to church....I’d recommend starting. If you do go....maybe start listening.
I went today. Did you?
 
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