I would say we are forced to accept the wild extremes. Call “bullsh*t” on it — as we often should — and you will be labeled a hater, bigot, intolerant, homophobic, whatever. The radical media puts that on the front page, and you are done. So most responsible people with lots to lose just quietly play along, with 80% of us privately saying to each other “this is ridiculous.” The hyper-vocal minority IS NOT the mainstream, although the media portrays otherwise.
The lines are not always clear. But that should not be a reason to have no lines at all. But that is basically where we are today. Anything goes. We need to get back to some modicum or reason and basic common sense. Until someone makes that happen, what is next?? Beastiality? Relations with kids? Why are those perversions not “a legitimate difference” (your words)? See…..where oh where do we draw that “oh-so-difficult” line???
Get real. At some point common sense and the reasonable man standard each need to prevail. They both served us well for a LONG damned time.