Bless your heart. Don't feel sorry for me. There are folks out there who are getting these sheltered educations, not exposed to ideas or people starkly different from themselves, feel sorry for those people.
My experience was fantastic, life shaping, and a heck of a lot of fun. Sure I woke up a bit earlier than normal but I was home by 430p and most days we got about an hour of bball in at school after classes ended, which is basically any kid's dream.
I also had a ton of homework, actually started college with enough credits to be a Soph, so my class load was not a walk in the park but still managed to have a pretty good bit of spare time (certainly enough to play video games, some more bball on the driveway, consume more than a healthy amount of TV, etc...)
I wasn't the subject of any federal government experiments, which is too bad b/c it was a great experiment and I do believe in federal control of education. It was a county program after the era of desegregation, in fact right in the heart of the re-segregation era, which I suppose continues to this day.
As for the navel gazing about kids of married families and families with dads, yadda yadda yadda, that's not only judgmental but useless and counterproductive. The reality is families are of all sizes and types, if we can't evolve our education system to keep up then we're going to fall behind, and it's not that hard to evolve - we choose not to in order to thumb our noses at our own history. You and your kids, me and mine, don't live in a vacuum. We share a country, economy, and basically everything else outside our houses - so it's in all of our personal best interest to make sure everyone is getting some good learning in.
I am all for a full blown shake up of school zones, reallocation of teachers in schools, and federalization of the education system, with maybe some marginal wiggle room at the state level. Many states, northern included, have now proven for the second time that they're incapable of administering a fair public education system. No other country fools around with this stuff at a local level, math is math, literature is literature, science is most certainly science, PE is PE, spanish is spanish -- it's no wonder our costs are so high and outcomes so poor.